正在自我反省中--zsr2006
谢谢大家，
前段时间写了一封EMAIL给教练，
语气有点重，可能伤了他的自尊心，
正在自我反省中
今天飞，下周回来再和大家聊
祝大家有个愉快的复活节周末
我要去努力工作了（节假日呀，意味者满机）
[832 楼] From:美国 |
IP:87.194.83.85 | Posted: 2007-04-06 16:58
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Dear
retina,
almost everytime I swam with him, he was late. Last time he
ditched me again without any explaination. I have to admit I was a bit upset and
wrote a letter to him, knindly suggesting him to be punctual. I think my words
are a bit strong and may hurt his feelings or pride, or wahtever....
since
then, he has not replied to me and I guess he is still pissed at me
I feel terrible
and don't know how to move on
I would like to tell u more when I have
time
cheers
zsr
[838
楼] From:美国 | IP:87.194.83.85 | Posted: 2007-04-13
04:35
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retina:
Dear zsr2006
That's
what i am saying. He can't be pissed off by anything about swimming. He was
pissed off because you were talking about the way he being a person.
I
had a similar problem. One of the professors i worked with always came late. I
wasn't mad though (maybe that's my personality), but everytime when making an
appointment with him, I confirmed with him about the time again and again,
orally and written. Then he feels his not-being-on-time has made a bad
impression, so he started to change.
Well, European coaches might still
have some parent style. Look at how a coach beat his own student and daughter at
this swimming championships. If that was in America, he may have been sued. 
Try to make
friends with his other students and they might have their own opinions and ways
to deal with this big person. 
Good
night.
By the way, American people are so jealous that you guys have a
week off for easter. We have nothing. hehe.
[839 楼] From:Unknown | IP:24.250.250.93
| Posted: 2007-04-13 05:42
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zsr2006:
hi,
retina,
as far as I know, I am the only one he is coaching at the moment,
oh, maybe I was , not sure if he loses interest in teaching me anymore.
I
havn't heard anything from him over two weeks. To me, no response is kinda a
classic sign of dumping someone, so sad...
huh, I was
pissed off with the way he was behaving
well, I had a
nice weekend off in LA , and i was informed that I had been promoted to business
class when I was there. Still cannot believe it, I just passed my probation and
got promotion
he helped
me get this wonderful job which I really enjoy, at end of the day I screwed it
up. now i even don't know the way to connect with him again, more
sad.....
yeah, honestly, i need to look inside and learn a lesson form
it
anyway, tomorrow is another day, be cool......
BTW, we know
american are hard worker, but we are so efficient that people see us hardly
working, haha 
Good
night! |
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